“I Was Asleep” – Mrs Farley at Cretingham
When it happened, Mrs Farley was asleep.
It was after midnight on the morning of 3 October 1887. The village of Cretingham was quiet, and the vicarage was still. Her husband, the Reverend William Meymott Farley, seventy‑three years old and long in poor health, had spent the day in bed. For months now, much of the work of the parish had fallen not to him, but to their curate, Arthur Edgar Gilbert Cooper.
The curate lived with them in the house. So did a groom and a single maid servant. It was not an unusual arrangement. It was practical, and it was supposed to be safe.
That night, prayers had been read at ten o’clock, as usual. Mrs Farley lay beside her husband and slept.
She was woken by a knock at the bedroom door.
It was Cooper. He said he wanted to see the vicar. Mrs Farley rose and spoke to him through the door. He was wearing only his dressing gown, and he opened the door as though intending to enter the room. She tried to prevent him. Nothing in the newspapers suggests she shouted or screamed, only that she questioned him.
It was her husband who answered next.
From his bed, Mr Farley called out to her: “Let him in and see what he wants.”
The door was opened.
Very few words were spoken between the two men. What was said was never clearly recorded. What Mrs Farley saw next was the curate entering the room and walking round to the side of the bed where her husband lay.
Then Cooper left.
Almost immediately, her husband called out again. This time, his words were unmistakable.
“He has cut my throat.”
Mrs Farley cried out. She ran into the house. Her husband, badly wounded, rolled from the bed. Within minutes, he was dead. His throat had been cut from ear to ear.
Nothing in the report pauses here to consider what that moment meant for her, only that, in the confusion, she screamed and raised the alarm.
While Mrs Farley ran for help, the curate went back to his own room. He undressed. He was heard moaning and sobbing. By the time help arrived, he had dressed himself again in his clerical clothes.
Later, under questioning, Mrs Farley spoke carefully. She said there was no ill feeling between her husband and the curate. She denied any impropriety. She explained she had sometimes taken a razor from Cooper’s room for household use. She objected when the coroner pressed her on private matters.
When asked directly about jealousy or suspicion, she said no. When asked if she had ever kissed the curate, she replied that she had treated him as a younger brother. She was indignant when this was questioned and firm when she answered.
After that, her voice fades.
The curate was removed. The house was searched. A razor was found. The papers followed the prisoner to the inquest and then moved on.
Mrs Farley remained where she had been that night—inside the vicarage, behind the door through which a man she trusted had been allowed to enter, because her husband told her it was safe.
And then, like so many women in such stories, she disappears from the record.

