Category: Birth to Death

  • Names in the Dust – Update

    Hello everyone, this is just a small update, especially as I’ve been promising my book for such a long time.

    Everything is a journey, and when I first began writing, I had a clear picture of what I wanted to create,  a picture that has shifted, reshaped, and evolved time and time again. Along the way, I’ve been invited to write for national magazines and academic publications, each opportunity sparking something new and reminding me why I began this work in the first place. I’ve explored different paths and met some truly wonderful people, and I’m grateful for every step that has helped guide where this project is heading.

    I’ve recently stepped back in a few places when I’ve needed to, but I’m still moving forward steadily in others, and the journey continues to unfold.

    I’ve also been receiving a lot of enquiries, so I’ve brought on the wonderful Jorja to help. If you contact me initially, your message will go to her first and then to me, but rest assured, I will still be personally involved.

    I’m now nearing the end of this journey, and the book will be out soon. I promise to share the stories untold, and the ones I wish I had known when I first began my research. Please keep tuned.

  • New Series: From Birth to Burial

    I am delighted to announce a new 12-issue series in Family Tree magazine. The articles trace the life of Jessie Blackshaw from birth through to death, showing how to use each record effectively and how to build a fuller family history narrative. You will also find a strong connection to Suffolk running throughout the series. Each month includes a workbook so you can apply the approach to your own research. The June issue is available now, with webinars coming soon.

  • George Tillett: Born and Lost in the Parish Workhouse

    A life that began and ended within the same cold stone walls, George Tillett was a child of the parish workhouse, a boy whose only constant was the institution itself.

    In 1821, at Nacton workhouse in Suffolk, the parish system was still in place. These pre‑1834 parish workhouses were never meant to be comfortable, and they were intended to discourage reliance on relief, but they were not yet the centrally driven, punitive regime that followed after 1834. Even so, they stood as stark reminders of how quickly hardship could narrow a family’s options to a single doorway and a set of rules. For most, the workhouse was a temporary refuge during sickness, unemployment, or the depths of winter. For George, it became the only world he ever knew. His presence in the register’s points to pre‑1834 parish relief shaped by illegitimacy, where a lone mother, taking work where she could in service or on the land, could not keep a child alongside her own survival.

    The records speak quietly, but they speak clearly. A year before George was born, his older brother Samuel was left at the workhouse. There is no father named to answer for him, and no mother recorded beside him. When George followed, he entered the same silence, his arrival noted without the comfort of a family connection in the ledger. In parish administration, overseers and workhouse officers documented costs and conduct, not tenderness, and the absence of relatives beside both boys suggests how completely their mother disappears from the official story. Within the pre‑1834 parish workhouse, children were commonly kept apart from adult inmates and occupied with basic instruction, prayer, and simple tasks suited to their age. It was a locally managed system, shaped by parish custom rather than a uniform national policy, and while life was constrained, it was generally less severe than the rigid, shaming discipline that became associated with the post‑1834 union workhouse.

    George’s life was measured in routine: the bell, the yard, the thin meals, the same rooms, the same faces. He grew up where affection was not an entitlement and privacy did not exist. Every blanket, every bowl of gruel, every hour indoors was accounted for as parish relief. The workhouse followed him through childhood, into the small spaces where the boys were supervised, taught, and set to work. There were no family stories to carry forward, no keepsakes, and no celebrations beyond the ordinary rhythm of the day.

    When George died, he did so as he had lived, belonging to the parish rather than to a household. There was no family listed to claim him, no mourners to gather at the side of his paupers grave, only another entry in a register telling us he dies in 1835 aged 14. We tell George Tillett’s story because his life matters, not for what he achieved, but for what it shows us about parish childhood at the sharp edge of poverty. He stands for the many parish children who entered the workhouse through necessity and stayed there, their lives recorded in ink, and their voices left for us to recover.

    Authored by me on the basis of archival documents and historical research, this story has been adapted for video and narrated by Carl Scott of Woodfarm Barns. Please follow the links to watch this story and further films in the same series.